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MY UNSEEN TEARS, YOUR UNSPOKEN SMILES By SYED MAJID GILANI As I held you in my arms for the first time, my heart overflowed with joy, gratitude and rush of emotions. As I cradled you in my arms, pressing you close to my heart, I felt an overwhelming sense of serenity. Tears of joy streamed down my cheeks, reflecting the deep solace and completion you brought to my life. In that sacred moment, I kissed your forehead, whispered the gentle words of Azaan into your ears, and named you Murshad-(one guided to the right path). October 23rd, 2019 - the day you arrived, changing my life forever. I vividly remember that moment at Modern Hospital, Srinagar, when Dr. (Prof.) Tasneem Gowhar expertly guided your birth, bringing you into this world. Your tiny hands and innocent gaze captivated my soul. You became my heartbeat, my everything. I ensured your circumcision was performed with care by surgeon Dr. Nisar Ahmad on the second day, just as I had done for your elder brother Arshad. My days we

BY SYED MAJID GILANI As I reflect on my life’s journey, filled with both triumphs and tribulations, I am overwhelmed with emotion. Born in the picturesque city of Srinagar, I embody the adage, “When life gives you lemons, make lemonade.” Each moment, from cherished childhood memories to significant challenges, has played a crucial role in shaping who I am today. My early years were spent in the city heart Khanquah Moulla before moving to our family home, “Darul Iftikhar,” in Lalbazar, built by my grandparents. This house symbolizes their love and dedication, grounding us in our heritage and values. Although I was a shy and average student, my family’s unwavering support and guidance became my strength. The first blow to my life came when my father passed away from a sudden cardiac arrest at just 50 years old, while I was only 24. Fortunately, I had already begun my career as a government employee, which provided some stability during this tumultuous time. After my father's deat

LOVE AND SEPARATION A 1948 Love Story: Yousef and Sophia's Legacy By SYED MAJID GILANI In the city's vibrant heart, Yousef and Sophia's lives intertwined, bound by tradition and culture. First cousins, their connection deepened through family ties. Their parents married them young—Sophia at 14, Yousef at 16. Sophia's radiant smile and gentle gaze captivated Yousef. Her heart belonged to his kind soul, thoughtful nature, and melodious voice. Yousef's striking features and fair complexion mirrored his charming personality. United, they laughed and envisioned a future filled with promise. Yousef's income was insufficient to support his family and continue his education. His limited income struggled to meet their needs, fueling inner turmoil. His family's subtle disapproval added pressure, concerned about their son's financial struggles. Sophia, kind-hearted and supportive, urged Yousef to explore better opportunities, fearing dependence on his joint famil

GENETIC TIES THE UNBREAKABLE BOND BETWEEN A FATHER AND HIS CHILDREN By SYED MAJID GILANI In life's intricate tapestry, a profound bond exists, transcending time, distance, and circumstance. This sacred connection between a father and his children is forged in the depths of their shared genes. Like a river's relentless flow, this bond remains unyielding, overcoming obstacles. Temporary disruptions may occur, but its essence remains unbroken. A river's unpredictable journey has a certain destination, and artificial barriers divert its course, only for it to return to its original path. The emotional bond between a father and his children is unbreakable, resisting permanent separation. History testifies to its power, as the love between them breaks free from constraints, overcoming obstacles. No matter life's challenges, a child's innate love for their father endures. Temporary estrangements may occur, but the indelible imprin

A Tribute to My Beloved Mamuz: Marhoom Mohammad Ilyas Chishti and Marhoom Mohammad Ibrahim Chishti, A Bond beyond Lifetime  By:  SYED MAJID GILANI Today, November 1st, marks a poignant anniversary, a day to cherish memories of my revered maternal uncle, Mohammad Ibrahim Chishti, who left this world on this day in 2021. My "Matamaal," once resonated with the warmth of my maternal grandparents, Marhoom Nizam ud din Chishti and Marhoomah Qazi Habbla Begum. Their love and guidance nurtured the matamaal, creating a sanctuary of joy and togetherness. After their passing, my mamuz inherited not only the family legacy, but also the responsibility of upholding the warmth and love that defined my Matamaal.  The signboard at the main gate, once bearing our grandfathers name ‘N D Chishti’, now proudly displayed ‘M I Chishti’, symbolizing the unity of my mamus, Mohammad Ilyas Chishti and Mohammad Ibrahim Chishti. Their bond was unparalleled, a testame

Arrival of the Sacred Relic (Moi- Muqadas) of Prophet Mohammed PBUH , and, the Role of Hazrat Sheikh Mohammad Radhu Chishti RA  BY SYED MAJID GILANI               Syed Hameed son of Hazrat Syed Abdullah presented the holy relic along with its caretaker servant, Maidanish, who had been taking care of the holy relic, to a renowned and famous Kashmiri businessman, named Khwaja Noor ud din Ashawari RA. While on way to his homeland Kashmir along with the holy relic and the caretaker servant Maidanish, he was arrested in lahore in 1692 A.D., on the secret information of spies.The holy relic along with Maidanish was produced before King Aurangzeb in Delhi. The king kept the sacred relic in the shrine of Hazrat Syed Khwaja Moin ud din Chishti RA Ajmer Sharief. It hardly remained there for nine days,that King Aurangzeb had Prophet Mohammad PBUH in his dream, where he was directed to send the relics to Kashmir. The King did exactly what was directed to him by the Holy Prophet PBUH

   Let me share with you, the story of my mother's father, my maternal grandfather, Magfoor o Marhoom  Nizam ud  din Chishti, a man who was truly an inspirational. Born in the year 1916 near Sona Masjid, Chishti Kocha, Fateh Kadak, Srinagar..He  belonged to the first generation of educated people of Kashmir. He worked in Central Excise and Customs, and ,was superannuated as Sectional Officer, in 1974. Throughout his life he exuded modesty, humility and simplicity. During his service, he wholeheartedly dedicated himself to his job. His dedication, integrity and honesty, earned him various appreciation letters and testimonials from his department. Despite being the first person of his family who was having a Government Job, my maternal grandfather always followed in the foot steps of his  paternal grandfather Hazrat Sheikh Radhu Chishti RA. He delved deep into religion and spirituality, immersing himself in  tilawate Quran, wazaif, zikr o azkaar, and steadfastly embarke

A Tale of Love, Betrayal, and Resilience  By Syed Majid Gilani/syedmajid6676@gmail.com In a world where truth is often trampled, John's life was turned upside down by a relentless campaign of harassment and manipulation orchestrated by his partner, Mary. Her ultimate goal was to secure a divorce and a hefty alimony, but with a twisted plan: to manipulate John into initiating the divorce. For years, Mary surreptitiously compiled a dossier on John, meticulously copying his phone contacts and closely monitoring his interactions with friends, colleagues, neighbours and acquaintances. Her clandestine efforts were a precursor to a campaign of manipulation and harassment, designed to exploit John. Despite being subjected to torture, incitement, denial, and constant provocation, John remained calm and composed. Mary's strategy was to push him to the brink, hoping he would lash out and give her the divorce she wanted. But John refused to take the bait. When Mary created a sc

My childhood was a haven of wisdom, filled with the guidance of elder family members, neighbors, and relatives. They shared stories, tales, and life experiences that instilled good morals and ethics, cautioning us against the consequences of reckless actions. This social accountability fostered a closely-knit society where crime rates were minimal. In this nurturing environment, my grandmother, Late Syeda Sakina Gilani, would often share stories from her childhood. One such tale has stayed with me to this day. Once upon a time, in a small village, there lived a woman, her husband, and their only son. The husband traveled extensively for work, leaving his wife to care for their child. Despite his occasional returns, bringing necessities and provisions, the wife's toxic behavior made their home an uncomfortable place for him. The son began attending a local school, and his mother showered him with love and affection. However, when he brought home an extra pencil, admitting to taki

 Well it was, April 30th, 2014  a blessed day , when my wife gave birth to our second baby, luckily a beautiful daughter in Modern Hospital, Srinagar. The air was filled with a mix of nervousness and excitement. I held her in my arms, recited  mandatory azaan, and  instantly named her "Sarah".In that blessed and precious moment, nothing mattered more than the health and happiness of my wife and our new born daughter, Syeda Sarah Gilani. The sound of Sarah's first cry echoed through the room bringing it a wave of joy and hope for the future. It was a moment of bliss and gratitude, a reminder of the precious gift of life, that had  been bestowed upon us.The moment my wife  gave birth to our daughter, I was flooded with joy, excitement and a sense of responsibility. I well remember the kindness of the gynecologist  Dr Tasneem Gowhar, who performed the cesarean delivery, and moreover do appreciate the personal care of  Mr. Jan Sahib, the owner of the renowned Mode

THE THICK TEARS, SIGHS AND SOBS ----A TRUE ACCOUNT OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE /www.syedmajidgilani.blogspot.com THE THICK TEARS, SIGHS AND SOBS ----A TRUE ACCOUNT OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE/ A Story by SYED MAJID GILANI /www.syedmajidgilani.blogspot.com In a world where truth is often trampled, John's life was turned upside down by a relentless campaign of harassment and manipulation orchestrated by his partner, Mary. Her ultimate goal was to secure a divorce and a hefty alimony, but with a twisted plan: to manipulate John into initiating the divorce. Behind the facade of a happy family, a toxic environment festered. John, a God-fearing, humble and honest officer, suffered in silence. His simplicity, clean-heartedness, and honesty had become his downfall in his marriage to Mary, whose narcissistic personality had created a living hell. Behind closed doors, John wept and wiped away his tears, hiding his pain from the world. Mary would taunt him, criticize him, and manipulate the children into

Behind Closed Doors/ A Story By : SYED MAJID GILANI / syedmajidgilani.blogspot.com / Behind the facade of a happy family, a toxic environment festered. John, a God-fearing, humble and honest officer, suffered in silence. His simplicity, clean-heartedness, and honesty had become his downfall in his marriage to Mary, whose narcissistic personality had created a living hell. Behind closed doors, John wept and wiped away his tears, hiding his pain from the world. Mary would taunt him, criticize him, and manipulate the children into turning against him. As the days turned into nights, John's tears fell like rain with his heart heavy with sorrow. He felt like a prisoner in his own home, trapped in a loveless marriage, with no escape from the torment. But Mary had other plans. She decided to break their home without giving a second thought to the children's future, and John's love for her. With a calculating smile, she executed her nefarious plans, feeling a twisted sense

Eve's Daughter--------------A heartfelt piece of advice/  syedmajidgilani.blogspot.com/ I am writing this to Eve’s daughters with a heartfelt piece of advice. It is important for Eve’s daughters to understand the true value of their husbands and cherish them in their lives. I urge you to safeguard your marriages by respecting and honouring your husbands. Grant your husband the position of authority in your home and life, and, take care of his needs without him having to ask. It is important for you to understand the value of your husband and the role he plays in your life. Show and express your affection, love, and gratitude everytime he looks at you. When he advises something beneficial and good, obey him willingly. It is crucial to maintain a good relationship with your husband’s family. Prevent unnecessary interference from your own parental relatives into your marital life. Never underestimate your husband or make him feel insecure. Avoid dominating or subordinat

  Today, on the 11th day of the Islamic lunar month, we honor the life and teachings of Hazrat Ghousul Azam Sheikh Syed Abdul Qadir Gilani (R.A.), the revered founder of the Qadriyah order. Gyarvi Sharif provides a sacred opportunity for devotees and followers of Ahli Bayt and Auliya e Kiram to offer heartfelt praises and supplications to Allah, our sole sustainer. Through "Zikr Azkaar" and "Khatmaat ul Moazamat", we seek Allah's blessings and guidance. We also pay tribute to our beloved Prophet (PBUH) with "Darood Azkaar" and "Kibrat Sharif". May Allah inspire us to follow in the footsteps of the noble saints, who reminded us that there is no God but Allah, and Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) is His servant and messenger .In Kashmir, the central gathering takes place at the revered Dastgeer Sahib Shrine in Khanyar, Srinagar, where the observance of Gyarvi Sharif commenced with the arrival and permanent settlement of Hazrat Syed Mohammed Fazil Shah G

A SAINT OF YORE Maulana Syed Mohammad Yasin Shah Gilani  BY SYED MAJID GILANI Born on July 18, Friday 9 a.m. 1890 A.D.) / 27  Zil Hijja, 1307 Hijri ) in the historic Khanquah Moulla, nestled in the heart of Srinagar, Kashmir, Maulana Syed Mohammad Yasin Shah Gilani’s life became a shining testament to resilience, cultural preservation, and an unquenchable thirst for knowledge. Despite not having formal education in English, mathematics, or science, he acquired profound Islamic knowledge, spiritual wisdom, and a deep understanding of Fiqah, Quran, and Hadith. He was a polyglot, well-versed in Persian, Urdu, and Kashmiri languages. Inspired by his paternal grandfather's legacy, Hazrat Syed Mohammad Fazil Shah Gilani RA, whose revered mausoleum lies within the sacred Dastgeer Sahib Shrine in Khanyar, Srinagar, Maulana embarked on a journey of spiritual discovery, following in the footsteps of his illustrious ancestor. Maulana's spiritual journey was a deep di

Er. Syed Javed Nazir Mantaqi (August 24, 1972 - July 30, 2013) Syed Javed Nazir Mantaqi ,a talented and dedicated individual,  left an indelible mark on the lives of his family members, relatives, friends and all those who knew him. Born to Syed Nazir Ahmed Mantaqi, at Khanquah Moulla, Srinagar, on 24.08.1972 , he showed great promise from a young age. After completing his early education at the prestigious Burn Hall School in Srinagar, he went on to earn a degree in Engineering from Dr. B.R. Ambedkar College in Bangalore. Syed Javed began his career as a junior engineer at the Jammu and Kashmir Power Development Corporation, where he was posted at the Baghlihar Power Project in Ramban. His dedication and zeal made a significant impact in his field, earning him recognition as a brilliant and committed engineer. Tragically, his life was cut short in a car accident on July 30, 2013, while commuting to work from Srinagar to Ramban. He left behind his grieving parents, wife,