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"My Life's Journey: A Story of Struggle and Resilience"  By  SYED MAJID GILANI Reflecting on my life's journey,which has been marked by both triumphs and tribulations, I am filled with emotions today, my birthday, June 6th, 2024.Born on sunday,June 6th,1976, in picturesque Srinagar,my life has truly been a testament to the saying, "When life gives you lemons, make lemonade." From the fond memories of my childhood to the challenges, I have faced, each moment has shaped me into what I am today. My early years in Srinagar were spent at Khanquh Moulla, followed by a move to our family home at Lalbazar, "Darul Iftikhar," built by my grandparents. This house,  symbolizes their love and dedication to our family, grounding us in our heritage and values. As a shy and average student, I never excelled in sports or extracurricular activities, but my family's unwavering support and guidance have been my strength. My education journey  began

By : SYED MAJID GILANI. Hazrat Sheikh Syed Abdul Qadir Jilani also known as Gilani was born in the beautiful region of Gilan or Jilan, Iraq in 471 Hijri (1077 A.D.) He came from the respected family with a strong lineage. His parents were descendants of Hazrat Moula Ali (R.A.), with his father’s roots tracing back to Hazrat Imam Hassan (A.S) and his mother’s to Hazrat Imam Hussain (A.S.) Tragedy stuck at a young age when Hazrat Ghousul Azam’s father passed away, leaving his mother to raise him alone. Despite this hardship his mother was determined to provide him with the best education. By the age of eight, Hazrat had not only learned the Holy Quran but also memorized the Holy Quran, becoming Hafiz-e-Quran. When he turned eighteen, he sought his mother’s permission to travel to Baghdad, the renowned center of education at that time. Despite the potential dangers of the journey, his mother wholeheartedly permitted him to go and even hid forty dinars in his shirt pocket, as a

   Let me share with you, the story of my mother's father, my maternal grandfather, Magfoor o Marhoom  Nizam ud  din Chishti, a man who was truly an inspirational. Born in the year 1916 near Sona Masjid, Chishti Kocha, Fateh Kadak, Srinagar..He  belonged to the first generation of educated people of Kashmir. He worked in Central Excise and Customs, and ,was superannuated as Sectional Officer, in 1974. Throughout his life he exuded modesty, humility and simplicity. During his service, he wholeheartedly dedicated himself to his job. His dedication, integrity and honesty, earned him various appreciation letters and testimonials from his department. Despite being the first person of his family who was having a Government Job, my maternal grandfather always followed in the foot steps of his  paternal grandfather Hazrat Sheikh Radhu Chishti RA. He delved deep into religion and spirituality, immersing himself in  tilawate Quran, wazaif, zikr o azkaar, and steadfastly embarke

DOWRY CASES By Syed Majid Gilani Dowry is defined as a demand for money or valuables from the groom's family to the bride's family in exchange for marriage. A huge number of dowry cases are everyday filed before our Hon'ble Courts by women along with their family members or at the behest of their family. While some cases are based on facts and deserve prosecution, there are instances where some women and their family members level false allegations of demand of dowry in a marriage and such cases are even filed decades after the contract of marriages. If someone has demanded and taken dowry, he and his family members are necessarily to be sternly dealt with under the law under Section 3 of the Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961. However, on the one hand this Act provides for the penalties for giving or taking dowry as imprisonment for not less than 5 years and a fine not less than Rs. 50,000 or the amount equal to the value of the dowry, whichever is higher, while on t

HEAVENLY ABODE OF MY FATHER, SYED IFTIKHAR GILANI By SYED MAJID GILANI In loving memory of my dearest father, Syed Iftikhar Gilani (1950-2001), I would like to share a glimpse into his heavenly abode. My father was born in 1950 in Khanquahi, Mohalla, Srinagar and graduated in Electronics from S P College, Srinagar in 1972. He joined the Sales Tax Department, after being selected by the Services Selection Board, and, served in the ministerial Cadre. Unfortunately, fate had other plans, and he left this world while still in-service in the prime of his youth. Growing up under the able guidance and affectionate care, of my beloved father, each passing day further magnifies his significance in my life. Today, as I reminisce about the golden memories we shared, my emotions over flow with bittersweet nostalgia. From his birth in 1950 until his departure in 2001, my father lived a life full of wisdom, compassion and dedication. He touched our lives with his care, disciplin

Arrival of the Sacred Relic (Moi- Muqadas) of Prophet Mohammed PBUH , and, the Role of Hazrat Sheikh Mohammad Radhu Chishti RA  BY SYED MAJID GILANI               Syed Hameed son of Hazrat Syed Abdullah presented the holy relic along with its caretaker servant, Maidanish, who had been taking care of the holy relic, to a renowned and famous Kashmiri businessman, named Khwaja Noor ud din Ashawari RA. While on way to his homeland Kashmir along with the holy relic and the caretaker servant Maidanish, he was arrested in lahore in 1692 A.D., on the secret information of spies.The holy relic along with Maidanish was produced before King Aurangzeb in Delhi. The king kept the sacred relic in the shrine of Hazrat Syed Khwaja Moin ud din Chishti RA Ajmer Sharief. It hardly remained there for nine days,that King Aurangzeb had Prophet Mohammad PBUH in his dream, where he was directed to send the relics to Kashmir. The King did exactly what was directed to him by the Holy Prophet PBUH

 Well it was, April 30th, 2014  a blessed day , when my  wife  ( estranged ) gave birth to our second baby, luckily a beautiful daughter in Modern Hospital,Srinagar. The air was filled with a mix of nervousness and excitement. I held her in my arms, recited  mandatory azaan, and  instantly named her "Sarah".In that blessed and precious moment, nothing mattered more than the health and happiness of my wife (estranged ) and our new born daughter, Syeda Sarah Gilani. The sound of Sarah's first cry echoed through the room bringing it a wave of joy and hope for the future. It was a moment of bliss and gratitude, a reminder of the precious gift of life,that had  been bestowed upon us.The moment my wife (estranged) gave birth to our daughter, I was flooded with joy, excitement and a sense of responsibility. I well remember the kindness of the gynecologist  Dr Tasneem Gowhar, who performed the cesarean delivery, and moreover do appreciate the personal care of  Mr. Jan

On this special day, June 16th, we, Arshad, Sarah, and Murshad, want to honor the most selfless, loving, and incredible person we know—our beloved Papa, Syed Majid Gilani. Your presence lights up our lives, providing the calm in every storm and the safe haven where we find peace. Your unwavering support, guidance, and love have shaped us into the individuals we are today. We fondly remember the countless hours you spent with us, taking us on morning walks, cycling adventures, and delightful picnics. Each moment was filled with joy and laughter, from our morning rides to Shalimar for breakfast to the exciting trip to Dal Lake Boulevard last year. The delicious bhel puri, golgappas, and ice creams we enjoyed there are unforgettable. The thrill of the amusement park, especially the tall merry-go-round ride we took together, remains a cherished memory. Your patience and dedication have instilled in us the values of hard work and perseverance. You have been not only

  Today, on the 11th day of the Islamic lunar month, we honor the life and teachings of Hazrat Ghousul Azam Sheikh Syed Abdul Qadir Gilani (R.A.), the revered founder of the Qadriyah order. Gyarvi Sharif provides a sacred opportunity for devotees and followers of Ahli Bayt and Auliya e Kiram to offer heartfelt praises and supplications to Allah, our sole sustainer. Through "Zikr Azkaar" and "Khatmaat ul Moazamat", we seek Allah's blessings and guidance. We also pay tribute to our beloved Prophet (PBUH) with "Darood Azkaar" and "Kibrat Sharif". May Allah inspire us to follow in the footsteps of the noble saints, who reminded us that there is no God but Allah, and Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) is His servant and messenger .In Kashmir, the central gathering takes place at the revered Dastgeer Sahib Shrine in Khanyar, Srinagar, where the observance of Gyarvi Sharif commenced with the arrival and permanent settlement of Hazrat Syed Mohammed Fazil Shah G

International Day Against Drug Abuse and Illicit Trafficking / World Drug Day Wednesday, June 26, 2024The Devastating Consequences of Tobacco Abuse and Substance Abuse Disorder As we observe International Day Against Drug Abuse and Illicit Trafficking on June 26, 2024, it is crucial to acknowledge the destructive effects of tobacco abuse and substance abuse disorder on individuals and society. Tobacco abuse has severe and far-reaching consequences for the brain, nerves, and overall health, leading to a range of cognitive, emotional, and physical impairments. Nicotine, the primary psychoactive ingredient in tobacco, rapidly affects the brain, causing irreversible damage to brain cells and neural pathways, resulting in cognitive impairment and memory loss. Psychotropic drug abuse cause mood fluctuations, mood swings including anxiety, depression, irritability and weakened immunity, making users more susceptible to illnesses and infections. Drug abuse also causes tooth d

Father’s  Day Special 16 th June, Sunday, 2024 A Tribute To My Grand Father Syed Abdul Rashid Gilani By SYED MAJID GILANI Reflecting on the people who have shaped and influenced my early life, one person stands at the top of my mind Syed Abdul Rashid Gilani, my late grandfather. Born in the year 1927 at ‘Khanquah Moulla,Srinagar to Maulana Syed  Mohammad Yasin Shah Gilani. My grandfather Abaji, was a pass-out of the prestigious Punjab University, Lahore, among the first generation of educated persons of Kashmir. He began his career as a supervisor in the erstwhile Kashmir Valley Food Control Department now known as Consumer Affairs and Public Distribution Department. Later he retired on superannuation as an Assistant Director at an age of 55 years in 1982. He had a habit of reading and writing books, newspapers and magazines.He was having a taste for poetry and has witten poems, ghazals , naatiya kalaam in urdu, persian and few in Kashmiri. He was never inter

A Tribute To 'Amma'-------My Grandmother, Syeda Sakina Gilani. (1930--2009) By SYED MAJID GILANI Reflecting the people who have shaped and influenced my early life, one person stands at the top in my mind Syeda Sakina Gilani, my late grandmother. Born in the year 1930 at ‘Yarkand House’, Malarata, Srinagar to S.Syed Ahmad Gilani, who had left Srinagar to join his father Syed Ghulam Mohammad Gilani, already settled in Yarkand (Central Asia) for carrying on the carpet business. Despite being a top business man Syed Ghulam Mohammad Gilani , was also appointed as a political representative by the British imperial government in Yarkand. S.Syed Ahmad Gilani, my grandmother's father could not return back because he died at Muree, (now Pakistan) due to cardiac arrest in 1964 .My grandmother never saw her father in her life. At a very young age, she was married to her cousin (elder mamu's son) Syed Abdul Rashid Gilani at Khanquah Moulla, Srinagar . Syeda